Reply To: Food Fight

So they’re arguing on which side shouldn’t donate more to “simchas chassan v’kallah”?

These extras don’t really add much to the simchas chosson v’kallah, so no, but that’s really the point anyhow. I was addressing your point that Covid taught us we can have chasunas in the backyard.

Sure, you can, and we did, but it’s still not l’chatchilah to have a chasunah with a bare minimum minyan and no friends.