Stay -“Next friend divorcing a former friend who’s family was not playing Fair at all wrote a get very early on and the lawyer sent the bais din a letter saying that she refused to accept it. This went on for a year while he was looked at as being a refuser”
I’m divorced. First thing, if you could work out the marriage – it’s a thousand percent better than getting divorced!
When you actually are getting divorced, you must be Smart about it.
I really can’t comment on your case, because I don’t know the details.
But, it seems that won’t Stop all the Posters from commenting!
But I will comment on this line -“wrote a get very early on”.
In general, it’s not a good idea to Run to give a Get.
The man has to access whether it will be accepted.
Once you see that it will be accepted, then by all means give it!
I actually waited a few years before attempting to give it.
B’H it worked out!