I don’t know what happened while I was typing my phone refreshed so not sure if it went through
I don’t know if that’s fully correct syag, it depends if the person wants to change or not
I know of addicts (hey I’m one of them 😉) that go to twelve step programs and want to learn to become a better person and they are happily married and sober
I can also understand the “abusive” person who hasn’t learned how to use their words when they were a kid and now has to learn how to use their words to express themselves instead of their hands and if they want to learn now that’s great for them
Obviously if a person doesn’t want to change then there’s no question the person shouldn’t be married because that is the whole point of marriage