AAQ – I will leave it to Avrum to formulate a real reply as he can do that so much better than I can. I am only chiming in because I was one of the people who did what you are speaking of.
I have to say that there were several comments you made that I had pointed out as being disrespectful to torah or mesorah or hashkofa and in explaining it I would get the written equivalent of a blank face. You would either dissmiss it or ignore it completely and then proceed to try to make your point with more of the same type of comments.
I usually try to explain something three times before accepting that the listener is not up for the information (for whatever reasons) and then I just drop it. That is why I have refrained from commenting on the more recent disrespectful (? perhaps flippant is a better word?) remarks where you seem to make odd correlations between actual Torah thoughts and something in your life that you would like to connect it to. I don’t know if you are aware of what you are doing, it seems to be a blind spot, so I refrain from responding at the risk of you thinking it was actually okay that you said it.
I appreciate the effort you make to bring yourself closer to Torah and understanding Torah and I believe that in time you will see how it works to put yourself second to Hashem and His Teachings.