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EACH ITEM DEPENDING ON ITS PRODUCT OR DEMAND ETC….
there’s just a limit how much Hashem expects from a person regarding Hishtadlus versus bitachon and Emunah etc….
Example: Hashem doesn’t expect a person as part of Hishtadlus to buy his wife another $10,000 diamond ring for her birthday EACH YEAR. Just something to make her birthday special to be considered doing your Hishtadlus and making her feel special.