Rebdovid- okay, too much going on here. First of all, you may be very sincere but I am too skeptical to think you really didn’t know what you were doing. BUT, that doesn’t give anyone license to be a jerk. Personal shots are never okay, I agree with GH on that.
Having said that, Avirah obviously has some heavy baggage. And if you read his posts you will discover that this is how he presents his points, harsh and pointed. And ujm/****** will never change either. So if you are gonna open a Pandora’s box and then start having a freak attack about less than a handful of posters, you obviously are just here to stir machlokes. And that is besides the fact that: A. You have decided to over dramatize and exaggerate the tone while(in order to?) disregarding points.and B. Please don’t pretend that this hateful attitude doesn’t go both ways. I cannot tell you how much garbage gets slipped in here about kollel, black hats, learning, Lakewood etc. Please. Don’t act like all your friends are any different.
If you really have/had an interest, you could have stepped right over the aggressive posters and said your piece (peace?). If you really had achdusbin mind you could have put in the effort to ignore rudeness and anger and responded intelligently where appropriate. Responding to heightened emotion with heightened emotion isn’t conducive to communication.