Reply To: Macha against men not giving gittin

Having actually been through this process here are words of wisdom
Ideally the civil divorce and get should be executed at the same time with the process being guided by a frum mediator or bais din.
No one wins. There are compromises necessary. But if people actually want to follow halacha and do what is best for the kids they need to accept the rulings of the impartial parties outside of the fighting.
The problems start when one side isn’t interested in guidance but winning or his/her own cheshbonos. And with such a person what use is a macha? You can have all the gedolim in the world line up on one side and he will still have his cheshbonos.