Avira, you have an admirable nack for putting everything in one sentence: science education “by itself” and feminism, a science theory of evolution and gender theory. Some of these are a matter of opinion and others are clearly beyond Jewish norms, of either halakha or hashkofa. At least, you could order or group them. Otherwise, you create an impression that everyone who disagrees with you in slightest is an apikoires.
Same goes for your parsing of a teshuva that at it’s face allows risking soldier life defending Israel. I think it would be fair to say that Melech Dovid paskened the same and this is not a modernishe reading of the Nach.