“people are looking for a certain picture perfect image that they consider societally acceptable and pleasing, as opposed to a spouse that they can have a marriage and a family with..
Yayin: I’m assuming that you took a high school biology course and realize that finding a member of the opposite sex with whom you can have children is a very low threshold. There is no reason why both a bochur and baas yisroel should not wait until they find someone who shares their values, hopes and aspirations and where there is both physical and intellectual attraction prior to marriage. These mindless rants about a so-called “shidduch crisis” is only increasing the stress levels and pressure on young men and women already struggling with multiple challenges as they look for their beschert.