THERE IS NO SHIDDUCH CRISES…..
Hashem who is the master marriage counselor mezaveg zivvugim….. Already has every human being matched up 40 days before they are even born and sent down to this temporary physical world saying son of so and so with marry the daughter of so and so….. Forget about the fact that now in the stage of dating in the parsha of Shidduchim it is now 18 or 20 years later since born and Hashem already said who they will be married to.
The question YOU in the parsha of Shidduchim Mr Seminary girl or learning boy need to ask yourself is are you doing your RUCHNIUS HISHTADLUS…. Not your gashmius hishtadlus of dating and phone calls etc…. But your RUCHNIUS HISHTADLUS of Bitachon and Emunah (Faith and trust in Hashem) and Tefillah (Davening directly to Hashem for help) in sending you your Zivug bkarov. This is what YOU need to ask yourself HONESTLY.
Hashem our loving father is waiting to send every person every single need and desire that they need as soon as they call out wholeheartedly for help directly to Hashem. This includes all of klal yisroel calling out together wholeheartedly for Mashiach to come already bkarov so we can serve Hashem in the Bais hamikdosh.