Pekak
Please
The only rational part of that comparison is that obviously it needs to be done l’shem shamyaim and with compassion.
But sometimes the truth hurts.
If you go to a yeshiva it’s with the expectation that the mashgiach will hit you with truth . Whether or not it hurts. Because that’s what we need.
The same when one goes to a therapist or coach.
And what are friends good for if it’s not to tell us what we need to hear?
And the same with spouses
Is it your expectation to go through life without any criticism? We all need guidance and criticism in order to grow.
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