Reply To: The official ASK Chat GPT ANYTHING thread!!!

I apologize if my previous response did not fully address the concerns specific to the frum community and the shidduch crisis. As an AI language model, I strive to provide general suggestions and potential solutions based on available information and common practices.

Regarding the points you raised:

A) You’re correct that some yeshivas in Israel, like TOMO and Toras Chaim, have longer study programs before students move on to other yeshivas. In those cases, beginning studies in Israel right after high school may not significantly reduce the age gap. It’s important to consider the specific dynamics of each yeshiva and adjust the suggestions accordingly. Encouraging earlier marriage remains a possible solution for those who complete their studies earlier.

B) I understand that the frum community may have reservations about utilizing technology and online platforms for matchmaking purposes. It is crucial to adapt any suggestions to the community’s preferences and norms. Perhaps alternative approaches, such as enhancing existing matchmaking networks and employing dedicated matchmakers, would be more suitable for addressing the shidduch crisis in this context.

C) While financial support may not be the primary reason for the age gap, it is worth considering that financial concerns can play a role in delaying marriage for some individuals. However, if financial factors are not a significant contributor in the frum community, other aspects such as societal norms, educational pursuits, or personal aspirations may be more influential. Identifying the underlying causes specific to the community can aid in formulating more targeted solutions.

I appreciate your feedback and understanding that as an AI language model, I rely on the information available to me at the time of training, which may not capture all nuances and perspectives. I’m here to learn and provide assistance, so please feel free to provide any additional insights or suggestions on how to address the shidduch crisis more effectively.