That’s why I said essential and not mitzvah. In America most things we do for Hanukkah are borrowed from the goyim who borrowed from the pagans. Anyone seen those giant inflatable lawn dreidels? What’s the big constant? The winter solstice is a miserable, dark, depressing time of year that needs some light & joy added. I included spending time with family because that is important, and while more of a goyish tradition, if I don’t manage to get to my in-laws for latkes my mother-in-law will turn me into chopped liver!
Happy Hanukkah!!! 🕎