@AAQ
What you happen to call ‘entitlement attitude’ , the Sh’A states as halaha psuka without holek.
And rama clearly delineates there what type of ta’ch we are talking about.
And even Sh’a does not talk about putting your impressionable youth under the authority of non or anti religious people who have a clear agenda.
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This is MAJOR stuff by the way , not to be decided by people like you or me .
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