@Always_Ask_Questions. I agree with everything you’ve said. My point from the beginning was that it is a problem that people like OP and UJM were raised thinking that anyone who says like you did is an apikorus. It is a shittah borne out of ignorance of anything other than what was taught to you in Yeshiva or a shiur, and it’s a huge shame that actually learning differing shittos has been so abandoned by the Hamon Am of the Torah velt to the extent that they’ve ceded it to “apikorsim” in their view.
@UJM, it’s the same Rambam you learn, the same Ben Ish Chai. The same Rashbam, Ritva, etc. You just never learnt it, and you were never taught how to react when confronted by it so you react by yelling “HERETIC!!!!”
I chose examples that were in my mind because of the thread regarding nusach and tefilah. I’m sure though that your usage of the internet for entertainment is ok with you and your posek, but there are credible poskim who hold that it is not only yehereg v’al yaa’avor, but that your wine is yayin Nesech. I trust that you tell your guests that before you serve them.