@non political wrote:
“I pointed out that what all frum jews actually do is ask rebbeim who are here in olam hazeh bguf v’nefish for assistance via brachos etc. They do not do this once their rebbeim are nistalek. Once their rebeim are nistalek they might daven at the kever to Hashem (and some may request that the rebbe who’s kever they are davening at be a moleitz yosher).”
I wouldn’t say as CS that all frum Yiddish do as she said because there are lots of views on this topic, but it’s definitely a valid shita.
I also won’t give you any sources from Chabad Chassidus because you may just say that it’s not good enough, instead I’ll quote another source.
Please read through the ????? in ???? ????? ??? ? ???? ???, over there he goes through in depth about this topic and he holds that you can ask the neshama directly to intercede on your behalf and it’s not an issue about ???? ?? ?????.
Again, he is a very valid source and not a Chabad source, so you can accept it, even if it’s not the view of “all frum velt”.