@chaim86
I’ve just spent over an hour going through this entire thread, and I can’t help but feel it’s been a frustrating waste of time—not just for me, but likely for everyone involved. Let’s break this down practically. If you can afford a smartphone, a computer, a car, or any other big-ticket item, the cost of a filter is hardly a barrier. We’re talking about a basic expense here, not a luxury. More importantly, having a filter isn’t optional—it’s an obligation. Every halachic authority agrees that safeguarding yourself online is a must, and this isn’t just a rabbinic rule; it’s rooted in Torah law. No one serious disputes that.You’re posting on Yeshiva World News, a platform tied to the Chareidi community—Yeshiva is right there in the name. In this world, if you want internet access while staying true to frum values, a filter is non-negotiable. It’s just how it works. I’d bet that if you asked most people in this community—myself included—they’d say the same: paying for your own filter is your responsibility, not TAG’s or anyone else’s. You might find a handful of people who see it your way, but honestly, you’re pretty much on your own here. Most of us just feel sorry that you’re stuck on this hill, hoping one day you’ll see why personal accountability matters.I’m genuinely curious—who’s your Rav? Because I can’t imagine any reputable posek backing this stance. At this point, though, I think this whole discussion has run its course. No matter how clearly I—or anyone else—explain why your reasoning doesn’t hold up, it seems like you’ll just keep doubling down with more excuses and tangents about why TAG should foot the bill. It’s exhausting and pointless. So, I’m done here, and I suspect others are too. Continuing this is like talking to a wall—nothing’s getting through, and there’s no progress to be made. Wishing you clarity moving forward.