Yehoshuah at yeshivah ketanah. Your brother can want whatever he wants but he sounds delusional to me. At the end of the day you reap what you sow. If he continues to be stubborn and push his will on reality and not realize his expectations are foolish. He will have to live with the consequences aka living with a woman who is stronger then him and controls him or staying single for a very very long time or marrying someone who is mismatched. The point is we can want whatever we want doesn’t mean we are not delusional. Remember it’s not what a person does that makes a happy marriage but who they are. When I see people start talking about character not whatever everyone does maybe I’ll start taking the system seriously until then all I see is hundreds of thousands of people trying to control reality and pushing their will instead of focusing on the right things
