AAQ – Look, from studying these issues, it is clear that there are multiple legitimate views, and multiple communities that had different legitimate attitudes. I think you agree with this. I can’t tell who is right (and most likely each group is sometimes right, or all are right for certain people, under certain conditions). But I know for sure who is not right – those who (on either side) claim that their position is Torah Moshe l’Sinai and the opposite are apikoresim. I am afraid this camp is pretty large.
If ALL the Gedolim agree wall to wall on something, it is perfectly reasonable to say that this is in fact Torah LeMoshe MiSinai, and the opposite are – at least very wrong, maybe in fact apikorsim as defined in Sanhedrin. There is a reason the camp is large – because there are a lot of Gedolim there with their followers. If you are still sure davka you are right, maybe you are actually wrong…