well, noitallmr, I have been to dozens and dozens of mitzva tenz and i have NEVER seen any pritzus at a mitzva tanz. I don’t have a clue what you are talking about. You have to bring me some concrete examples,otherwsie I’ll just set your comments aside.
And ,can you explain to me what is wrong with chosson kallah holding hands and dancing the mitzvah tanz? Have you EVER been at a mitzbvah tanz and actually seen the tears in the eyes of the chosson and kallah ? It seems that we all see what one wants to see,maybe it has to do with our own machshovos..I see kedushah in the whole process and,obviosuly, hundreds of kedoshei yisroel and thousands of good jews feel the same way.