I believe I would be labeled a “yeshiva type”…. this is my opinion and I speak for nobody but myself.
I am, B”H, married for 15+ years, so it has been while since I’ve been on a date, but here goes.
1) going places like bowling or shooting pool on dates
I took girls bowling and to shoot pool, if they were agreeable to do so. I didnt think there was anything wrong with it then, nor do I think there is anything with it now. It depends WHERE you go to engage in these activities.
2) complimenting guy/girl on clothing (i.e. nice tie , or nice necklace) if Ok what date is it acceptable?
If I saw the girl was wearing a nice piece of jewelry, I would comment, if I felt it appropriate at the time. If she was wearing an unusual article of clothing, for example a top with a “different” pattern, I would have commented on the pattern if it fit into the conversation.
3) guy walking girl out of car when returning from date
I always thought it was considered good manners. I think it is good manners to to walk ANYONE out of a car.
4) sharing a portion of food when eating out
I wouldnt share food with anyone (well, perhaps my wife and kids), I dont think it is good hygiene (in fact I think it is disgusting, but just a personal feeling). If you meant, ordering a dish and splitting it PRIOR to eating, thats something else entirely. Why not?
5) Is it ever allowed to be asked to be taken home ?
Thats like asking, is it ever allowed to insult someone. Instead of being asked to be taken home, I have no problem with either a boy or a girl stating that they are feeling a bit tired and would like t be taken home/go home shortly. It is probably better to utter a little white lie than to humiliate someone by saying “take me home”.