I agree with Ujm. Todays generation is nebach falling so fast b4 you know it jewish kids will be mistaken for non-jewish kids.
today every question that comes up pple have an opinion on it as if they are poskim and not only that but there are all types of heterim for every thing that in normal surcomstances should be asur.
so why do we need all this do you think that when our gradparents were in shidduchim they had all these questions abt. whats appropriate and whats not? no, we are becoming so integrated in the american lifestyles that we think its normal.
personally I think its very sad that a jewish bochar feels its ok to copy the goyim for dating purposes and take a girl to play pool! I mean i’m sorry its just wrong and totaly not tzinius and you can come up with much better ideas just use your head thats what its there for.