In very frum circles not opening a car door is one of the subtly telling things that is used in determining someones hashkofos. If a girl rejects a date because he didn’t open the door for her, the boy will actually be happy he didn’t fall into such a shidduch. Obviously the girl will almost never verbalize that shes rejecting it because the door wasn’t opened for her, as that would come across as being petty. Sometimes she will not even acknowledge to herself that is the reason, but subconsciously not agree to another date for that reason. Either way the boy will be happy that such a shidduch didn’t proceed.
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