What is a bachur supposed to do when his yeshiva prepares garbage cans all over the building so a shikkur doesnt have far to run when he has to puke his guts out? He has a haskama from his own yeshiva, that sometimes demands that he be back in yeshiva (where else can he have true simchas hatorah, but in the place he learns it, the argument goes) that it is ok to to get so drunk that they prepare cans all over the building for him to puke his guts into.
What is he supposed to do when he sees his father and all his fathers buddies downing shot, after shot on simchas torah?
Wake up adults. We have to set an example for our children. Unfortunately, we sometimes set the wrong one.