Feif un admitted he made a mistake, but you all (not all, most) proved his point by jumping on him and being judgmental. one thing ive learned is not to generalize.
If you read some of my earlier posts, I was off the derech for a while and I have worked really hard and have gotten back pretty much to where I was, its anything byt easy but I am happier than I have been in years. I understand Gitty’s happiness, its not a flase happiness because you can truly happy but its only temporary, it just dies and you are worse off than you were before.I dont regret what I’ve done because now everything means more to me and I understand things better and in turn will be able to help me.
Let me go away from my personal story to the debate about yeshivish people being judgmental, so there was a while when i was hovering in both wrolds deciding what to do with my life and the judgmentalism i encountered by some yeshivish people pushed me off. now you cant make a blanked statement and generalize, the people who are helping me now are yeshivish and really erlich, open minded and understanding. im not sure who mentioned it and said in every group you have both open minded and closed minded people, but in the yeshivish commnuity you have more closed minded than open minded, and someone also mentioned, which i completley agree with that its an even bigger problem that some people who are closed minded think they are open minded which is so false