FEMINIST- Not all Chassidish couples are happy of course, but nothing having to do with being attracted before marriage, for most cases.
proof- not all Litvish pple are happy either, and they were all of course so attracted before, since they dated one hundred times……
And, couples who divorce could have been attracted one hundred times to each other, but it does not gaurantee them a happy life.
Most Chassidishe couple who only met once, live very happily together.