Ashreinu, it is true what you are saying about yad v’shem, although I refrained from writing anything and did not want to offend (who knows who is reading these words). Still, the people who worked on yad v’ shem did do something to help us always remember our dear ones who were lost. Maybe next time I go I’ll go with Rabbi Teller. I also heard there is the diaspora museum in Tel Aviv and you can look up lost relatives, never went there.
I read all the books written by frum survivors to have more of a feel of what they went through, all from a Torah perspective.