notpashut: Remember, it was sinas chinam that destroyed the Beis Hamikdash. But, as you said, some people just don’t want to hear it.
Oh, and just remember the letzanus that the supposedly “frum” posters here make of YU and the Rabbonim there (such as R’ Tendler, who has been bashed here on numerous occasions) before you accuse others of it.