areivim: I think if you take into account the ain horah factor you are being self-focused which is not what the torah wants.We have to act the same to them without exception only if they show extra sensitive reactions when we are open then an alternative option is suggested.I actually have a relative who told me i’m the only one who he can talk to regularly cuz i don’t hide what’s going on with my childrens life and so treating him as another human being.
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