RY- i fully agree that we have the power to avoid agmas nefesh, but we should definitely be careful not to do something that will directly cause an ayin hara. One has nothing to do with the next. I agree she should be involved, I agree you should maintain the relationship etc. I noted all this in the beginning. However, there’s a way of going about this so that the situation doesn’t become unbearably painful and therefore causing ayin hara….
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