Regarding looks and marriage, clearly that is an issue of much greater significance from the guys perspective than the girls. Nevertheless, this is a greatly abused issue. Too many guys put looks on top of the list, when it should be on the bottom. (Note, I didn’t say it shouldn’t be on the list at all.) It should come after far more important issues such as middos tovas, a beautiful inside, bas talmid chochom, good brothers, etc.
These guys looking for Miss America, and there are far too many of them as much as they will deny it, are sure to end up with a Miss America alright — on the outside. But they will be married to a Miss Dracula on the inside.