(fyi, teen is a guy. so he probably wont want a husband. (i hope))
teen: sometimes ppl get mixed up when their parents or someone telling them what to do are telling them & setting examples for them which are not all good or all bad. they decide that since the parents or whoever are not behaving how they should in certain areas, everything else they are doing is wrong as well. so if you dont agree with how someone is dealing with a certain situation, & u dont think they are correct, at least try to remember that this does not mean that everything they do or tell you is something you want to stay away from. they may be doing very admirable things at the same time that u can learn from them even if u dont agree with everything they stand for.
did this come out clearly? like syriansephardi, i often have difficulty expressing my thoughts