Rabbosai, Please take a deep breath. We are having a discussion of halacha, and quoting the meforshim that doesn’t jibe with someones idea of modern society shouldn’t cause a tantrum.
A. Nuran, what you said was out of line. I’m afraid to say that you come across as having been strongly influenced by the feminist movement. This is totally out of line with Yiddishkeit. If there is a conflict between the norms of modern society and the Torah, as explained by the meforshim, we choose the Torah over modern mores.