I was not alluding to chivalry!!!! I was talking about being a mench. One has NOTHING to do with the other!!!!!
I don’t necessarily agree with that statement. Chivalry refers to the behavior of the knights of old, who were protectors and defenders of those weaker than themselves. While women do not nowadays have to be thought of as weaklings, it is still good manners and a protective gesture (which shows thoughtfulness towards the other person) to be chivalrous. And that IS PART OF BEING A MENSCH. Menschlechkeit is demonstrated by acting in a manner that shows thought and consideration for others.