“Jewess, he is not only doing what you say. He is also trying to preserve MY religious mind, by thinking that I am not dressing up to his higher standard, and am in need of “fixing.” What he really wants is to see ALL Jews dress like he does, and if they do not, he thinks (as apparently now do you) that he is on a higher madreiga.”
Oomis, it seems to me that you are thinking in a manner that reflects paranoia. Really, people do not walk around with nasty thoughts about you, and are busy with their own lives, just as you are. I now understand better your very strong feelings against certain manner of dress, and perhaps one day you will rethink your stance, for your own peace of mind.
Just like YOU don’t wish to see all Jews dressed as you do, others have no agenda to make the hamon am dress as they do. You are ascribing thoughts and intentions that have no bearing on reality, although I am certain you have had some painful experiences that have lead you to think in so unusual a manner.