SJS, they’re not my boundaries, though I know what you mean.
I’m not into levush. That my kids are is their decision, but I’ve always created an atmosphere such that they know that if they make other decisions, want to experiment, they will not feel disenfranchised. And B”H, that impacts how they look at guys who haven’t made their decisions.
And yeah, I’m not enamored of how Flatbush27 expressed things.