a big ny rabbi said this story about himself during a shabbos shuva (or hagadol) drasha
he made an illegal turn with his wife in the car. immediately the sirens went off and he was pulled over, as he pulled over his wife told him ‘you deserve this’. as the cop came to the window, he told the cop ‘my wife told me i deserve this ticket’ the cop looks at him like ‘you have enough tzaros already’ and tells him i won’t give you a ticket, just don’t do it again.