I wash the dishes shabbos morning, having had them soak overnight using seeallsides method. Who has strength to deal with dishes friday night now that the zman is so late? I would rather get to bed and wash up the dishes in the morning.
When I’m not feeling well, I’ll use real glasses and cutlery but I will use nice dishes that can be reused or thrown out. I bought some really nice ones at amazing saving, also at costco. I don’t even own real china, don’t have the space for it, and my correl dishes are light and easy to wash. They are nice enough for me, they make them in all kinds of pretty designs these days.