Daniel Breslauer: You really have to be honest with yourself first. Do you really want a Rav? Are you prepared to accept your Rav’s guidance unconditionally, even if your not comfortable with his decisions and actions. Otherwise, you’re wasting everyone’s time.
By the way, once you’ve acquired a Rav, decisions in life becomes so much easier and “not agreeing with him” does not exist.
It may also be that your Rav does not live in Israel.