In response to my critics:
1. Just because something is normal does not make it correct
2. One should have someone to speak with, better it not be someone single.
3. I am not saying to entirely keep them out of the loop. But one should refrain from going into specific details and one should also not use names
The case we are speaking about was someone who said the name of a boy who was going to be reht to a friend. Firstly, the boy did not even receive the suggestion yet and 2. the girl did not agree to the idea either. Despite this being in the extreme infant stages of a shidduch, the girl went and spoke to her friend about this in detail. WHY?
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