oomis, What on earth are you saying? Why are you using my post as your soapbox for speaking about special needs people?
All I am talking about is whether the girl/guy finds their date to be intelligent. Some people are smarter than others. Not everyone wants someone equally smart as themselves, some are looking for smarter, others feel the need to be the smart one in the relationship.
It is quite conceivable to say that a girl might turn down a guy who is smarter than her since she wants a guy who meets criteria for Mensa.
Where on earth did you get the idea that I was talking about special needs people? Or is this the hot topic now? If I recall correctly, this is not the first time I have needed to defend myself from such an irrational attack.