Dr Pepper:
“but I think it is much harder for a guy to be a “good guy” than for a girl to be a “good girl”.”
Totally irrelevant regarding the shidduch crisis because of the the simple question.
WHO are the “not good” guys marrying.
And by and large they are all getting married. Perhaps the “not good” girls are getting married and the “good girls” are getting stuck. (totally unproven and unsubstantiated hypothesis).
Either way it is unacceptable that any class of girls be stuck. we as a community can make a difference. Let’s do it.