Mrs. tzippi:
Blame that one on those who allow the boys to get away without learning how to make a living or a budget. My Rabbonim & the Roshei Yeshiva in my area (as well as puny me) disagree with those and say the boys SHOULD learn how to run & support a family. I just note the way it is.
Welcome cholentkugelkishke; With a name like that, no wonder you have yummy delicious ideas 🙂