Reply To: Shadchan Tips

oomis- That’s exactly my question with the shtreimel shouldn’t i let things go a bit and let them see first if the boy is interesting to them before they make such a statement? it’s like we’re talking a satmar family with a litvish one we’re talking very similar backgrounds semi-litvish-chasidish. But then again after such a statement i’m scared i’ll upset them when the boy refuses to let go of his shtreimel. Isn’t there alot of shadchanim that work that way they don’t tell all the details in the beginning?