SJS has a point. Lets say a girl says she won’t date a guy who’s younger than her. That’s fine, she’s allowed to say that. I would respect that and people should not try to set her up with guys who are younger than her. BUT, if she would meet a guy, not shidduch-style, and like him and only find out later that he’s maybe 6 months younger than her, she might not mind anymore that he’s younger. It’s a hard call. I would NOT want someone to deceive me, yet sometimes the girl won’t care about such a thing once she meets the guy. I don’t know what the answer is, I do hear both sides.
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