Scenario 1:
>> In the name of full disclosure, I never would have dated my wife if I knew her age initially. Someone knew this and told me she was a year younger, we found this out right away, but at least we had went out. <<
Scenario 2:
Boy walks in to take girl on date. This is date #1 and the parents are there to greet him. There is something wrong with this boy, both the parents and the girl can tell. He seemed drugged or not feeling well. The mother is concerned to let her daughter leave with this boy that does not look capable of driving. There’s not much she can really do though, so the couple leaves on their date as planned. The girl comes back and says nothing really bad happened, but he seemed… weird, out of it. Mother calls shadchan and demands an explanation. Shadchan says she’ll have to call her back. Next day mother calls shadchan again- what’s going on? Oh- I didn’t think it was such an important point, being that it’s all under control now… but he’s on medication for xyz(don’t know name of illness) and I guess there are some side effects.
Shadchan didn’t think this was important?! go figure