Hi! Bsha tova. I also went through that stage of having the SCARY SECOND. Everyone told me how hard the adjustment will be and they were so right!!! B”h for all that but it wasn’t easy at all. I love them dearly and they are a real bracha but its a lot of work!
The only advice I have is to push through and appreciate and love them and I guess we’ll relax when they’re married off!!!
Main thing is that we all stay healthy safe and happy!!
BARUCH HASHEM!!!!