Pashuteh,
Thanks, I agree with that assessment that conversations get unintentionally overheated at times. We can all be more careful.
Pashuteh, answering a question that has no foundation in fact is something I cannot help you with. No one on this thread, myself or others, have said “that women must dress ugly” inside or outside. You will not be able to find a single statement to that effect. Either that is your misinterpertation, or that is a demagoguery of what has been discussed and can only lead one to believe that an attempt to delegitimize tznius standards is at hand.
I already provided you the source for having special dress for the husband inside the home.