Oh you are so right my dear.
I wish you only clarity in life with Bracha and simcha.
Know that just as you need others to acknowledge your – pain your parents have pain as well. I’m sorry that your pain has not been validated. And just as all that is “good” comes from Hashem all that is seemingly “bad” comes from Hashem too.
If we only knew His plan…
Stay focused dear, may you be Blessed to find your bashert soon!