Sorry, moish, but none of that defines you, as a person. I know for a fact, (especially from the davening thread,) that you are a good person. Yes, we all struggle with things. Believe me, if you would’ve known me five years ago, that all applied to me, (and more.) Now, it doesn’t. Fast forward five years for you, and I hope we will say the same. None of that defines who you are, it’s only a current description. (I probably could’ve been your girlfriend.)
~a~